What is Domestic Violence?
Domestic violence is a special classification under the law that pertains to individuals who are married or were previously married, individuals who are related, individuals who are currently living together or previously lived together, individuals who have a child together, and individuals in a romantic relationship or previously in a romantic relationship.
Domestic violence laws cover much more than physical violence such as punching. For example, domestic violence may include sexual, economic, emotional and psychological abuse, criminal damage and disorderly conduct.
Abusers want to establish and maintain power and control over the victim.
Cycle of Violence
Most domestic violence cases follow a pattern known as the Cycle of Violence. Understanding this cycle may help you predict the next step of your abuser.
Stage 1:
Tension Builds – Abuser insults, threatens and controls victim.
Stage 2:
Explosion – Outbursts of violence, abuser blames victim, victim is punished for challenging authority.
Stage 3:
Honeymoon Phase – Abuser begs for forgiveness, promises it will never happen again, swears that he/she will change.
Victim advocates can help you recognize domestic violence, develop safety plans and assist you in obtaining an Order of Protection.
If you or someone you love is in need of assistance, please contact us by email or call 480-350-8004.